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[midnightrider55_PREV (deleted)]

Who here is willing to admit that someone broke your heart and what are you doing to repair it? Would it cause you not to date again or put a temporary damper on it until later?

[seteyegyal]

`I will admit my heart was broken before. The only thing I did to repair my broken heart was, time and doing more positive things for myself. I did not date for a few months after the break up because (1) I needed that time to myself to recollect and heal (2) I had to make sure I was 100% over the ex before I started something new. (3) Enjoy being single and free.

[cincerelady]

`I've had my heart broken also. It has taken a very long time to heal. The reason really was that I thought the relationship would work out. Every marriage has it's wicked up and downs. Because of incompatibility we separated and later divorced. I listened to my kids who told me that their dad had loved me instead of the woman he was living with when he died.

It was now I was able to look at the relatonship without interference from the 'ex'. It was then I realized he never loved me while we were together. I wasn't aware it was that one-sided. I didn't have another man to treat me any better because I had remained faithful. Since then I find a lot of me STILL lie and cheat. However time does heal. i look now and then and @ other times I enjoy my solitude.

[kjjmg]

.Relationships take two simple as that but not so simple to see the picture from the dots sometimes. Men, women no matter, lying and cheating is anybody's bag there is no profile for who will do these things and I'm sure given the right circumstances we can all admit that we might be tempted to participate in these actions. Those who think there isn't a circumstance where they'll lie and cheat scare me most because they do not know their limits and thus, don't know themselves.

[kitkat3]

`I will admit that I had my heart stomped on! I mean, I think that everyone goes through it at least once in their lifetime.
The way that I am handling it is that I had to face the reality of it happening to me. It's shocking and unbelievable at first, but you have to face it. I tried not to have false expectations and I had to make myself believe that there wasn't a chance of us getting back together. If it happens, it happens but I had to know that it might not happen and this made me accept the situation and helped me to move on. I also allowed myself to grieve. They usually say don't listen to the music that reminds you of him/her, but I did listen so that I can cry and get him out of my system. Now I can listen to that same music and say, he wasn't that good for me anyway! I started talking to friends and meeting new people which helps. I still think of him from time to time and it still hurts sometimes but not as much. Time heals all. I haven't met anyone new yet and I am not in a rush. I'm too busy learning to love myself, without someone else! I still speak with my ex and we get along well....apart! I'm movin on!

[gracefuldesire (deleted)]

`I TOO HAVE BEEN HURT. WHAT I DID WAS I REALIZED THAT THE MORE HE IGNORED ME, HE WAS REALLY SAYING THAT I WAS NOBODY TO HIM AND I MADE A DECISION TO MOVE ON AND GET OVER HIM. HE TOLD ME ALL THE THINGS THAT HE THUGHT I WANTED TO HEAR AND IT FELT GOOD TO HEAR THOSE THINGS BUT I'M HEALING SLOWLY AND I AM PAMPERING MY SELF AND PRAYING AND TRUSTING GOD FOR PEACE HAPPINESS AND JOY. AND SOME HOW EVERYDAY NOW I CAN GET UP AND IT'S GETTING EASY TO MAKE THRU MY DAYS WITH OUT FEELING STUPID AND USED AND MISUNDERSTOOD. SHARING THIS WITH EVERYONE HEAR IS HELPING EVEN NOW. THANK YOU!!!

[softroses08]

`Hello every one new here so just wanted to put in my two cent''s I know that every one who ever being in a relationship has been hurt once or twice.When I see that mess is about to hit the fan. That is when I shutdown every thing .No more S-- no more cooking and whatever lol.You see when the time come's to depart I will be able to walk away,spiritual, mentally,and physical. I had to learn that love hurt's and it only take once to have it stamp in your soul. and with that said one must find a way to be able to pick up the pieces no matter how it hurt's

[syncere30 (deleted)]

`its a shame that i don't see more men in this forum. we do get our hearts broken too. which is sometimes why it leads to some of us turning into the dogs that you ladies can't stand. and in no means am i saying that i am a dog. my heart was broken a while ago and the woman did me bad. sometimes i find myself having to retrain myself on how to act with women. u know how u get so used to being a certain way with someone so not to disrupt they life or upset them that u end up changing your personality? its like i have to learn how to be myself all over again and its hard but it feels good. just makes u a lot more cautious or your actions with the next. feel me?