Dating today...

[ethie39_PREV (deleted)]

What has become the hardest part about dating?

[lattesweet]

`Everyhting has been hard regarding dating for me. Unfortunately i have been in contact with people who seem compatible but when the closet door opens the amount of skeletons that fall out are enough to fill a cemetery. (smile).

[tessplease (deleted)]

.I chat with a guy online,but when it get close to time to meet there is always something that changes my mind!

[chigirl1201]

`to me.the hardest part about dating for me is weeding out the BAD ones. and what i mean by that is i'm 22 and so far it seems to me that the only thingguys my age are interested in is "gettin some" and i get tired of that. I be sinceere when dating and really look for that friend connection. it disapoints me when guys act like that. will they ever grow up?

[theartistwill_PREV (deleted)]

`I've never dated before in my life.

[brownsugar2009]

``i think this is how guyies is chigir1201, but i also believe that u still can find a friendship, if u met someone already had a girlfriend. lol
u soo cute

[miah1987]

`For me it's just the fact that i'm extremely shy and it's hard for me to open up, i have no problem get attention from men, but im not approachable, i don't smile and many times i look unhappy, i think i'm afraid to go back out there again, i broke up with my man...well we are still kinda talking, and i think i still have my barrier up for other men. I hate this, i am so use to being loyal to him.

[realearth (deleted)]

`Peace,
I think brotha's run from me..lol..I am just keeping it real. I am just that down to earth sista and i don't play games. I am Muslim and every time i tell a brotha that he gets silent..lol. so now i am so upfront on my profile so they can't say they didn't know. I find that i am a little to strong for most men so they don't want to be bother. Well i know one day Allah (pbuh) will bless me with my husband and i will not give up.

Salaam

[princessshaina]

`I don't find dating hard. It truly is a simple process..you can generally find out if you want to date a person again after the first hour or so of the first date. PrincessShaina

[tanyalady (deleted)]

`Finding a good honest black man is very hard,they don't want to put the effort in that it take's to date......but they want the rewards!!!!

[wildnemesis (deleted)]

`The hardest thing about dating is the fact that everything is going onto the internet and it's easier for people to portray one image online and when in person they are completely different; thus wasting each other's time.

[softroses08]

Well for me this new way of dating one must ask a lot of question's.. Beside this new method of trying to getting to know someone. A person need to check out who they are getting into a relationship with. Like Is this his real name and pic?. These days you need to know his past like do he got something uncureable?, Could he be on the down low?, Do he really have a job? Just who are his friends?. Is he at home with his mother? all of these question's can give you the blues , Don't get me wrong it work both ways. Dating has change because the time's has change and every one seems to be in a big hurry to date somebody.anybody. wow.so sad.

softroses08