Buttrflykisses, 46

I want to kill the pimp in somebody! Its true,lol. I want someone to walk away from "the game" & give it all up FOREVER! just for me-because i'm that good & I am. I am the perfect woman for the right man, I just haven't met him yet. I'm really pretty shy but aggressive when I need to be. I'm flawed but i'm fabulous but my flaws won't matter to my match anyway. I'm looking for someone that I can have more than a superficial connection with, someone who won't just be about looks but what i'm really like as a person first-If you think i'm attractive I want that to be the bonus not what your feelings are based on. I don't want to fall for someone who will just be taken by the next pretty face or rotund a**. I need someone with a great sense of humor and can take a joke so we can play with each other-but not so silly that we can't crossover from being friends. Someone mature who knows what building a meaningful relationship is about, someone who truly respects & appreciates women, especially HIS woman. I can let him wear the pants and be the man because he earns his keep and takes care of home, not just because he has a "piece". He's not perfect & i'm not claiming to be but he'll be someone that I can be excited about and mutually passionate about each other. People will envy us! (please don't hate, lol). I'm too grown to be some dudes booty call, i'm too old to be a girlfriend (for too long), i'm self-sufficient, independent and i'm a mother. The only title I should be carrying is fiance or wife, lol. I'm not here because I don't have options, I just want to meet someone that I can have mutually strong feelings for. I have a lot of feelings that I want to be able to entrust in the right man, that will make him happier than he ever thought and me happier than i've ever been. Of course we will pace ourselves, i'm not looking for something INSTANT to occur. I'm just not here for "casual fun" & games.