Chicagal10, 46

Ready to Date I am a single, professional black female who has vowed to make my personal life a priority in 2011. I want to meet like-minded, honest and sincere men who appreciate and value black women. I refuse to believe the messages the media has been sending about women like myself. I refuse to believe because I have been independent I will most likely spend my life alone. I refuse to believe my preferred partner (a black man) is an unlikely match because he is in jail, is lazy, is emasculated, doesn't find black women attractive or desirable, is intimidated or any other excuse that has been consistently fed to black women to discourage us from finding what are hearts crave.

WARNING: I am not looking for casual s----l experiences on this site nor am I looking for validation. I'm comfortable with my looks so you don't have to compliment me to gain my interest. However, I DO encourage you to arouse my curiosity by asking a thought provoking question if you are really interested in learning more about me.

Qualities that turn me on: confidence, a laid-back attitude, intelligence, sincerity, wit, honesty, spirituality, discipline and most importantly FUN!

Qualities that turn me off: arrogance, high-strung, ignorance or ignorant behavior, fake, lying, reckless, dull.

My dating age range is 30-40.

Maybe this is a lot to digest... but this is Me. If you are still intrigued- shoot me a message