Coffee2go3030, 44

is there any good real men? i'm a laid back person that likes to stay home or go out. i enjoy doing lots of things. i'm pretty easy going. i'm very understanding, caring and i have a big heart. some day somebody can have all of my heart. i dont like fake people, i like somebody who is being themselves. i'm a pretty casual person, most of the time i wear casual or sporty clothes, but i love to dress up and go out once in awhile. i have two beautiful daughters and they are my life. thats how it should be if your a parent. i'm looking for a life long partner, but we need to get to know one another first. communication is a big key to any relationship. i dont want to just date and bring men into my life and my kids life and then end up getting hurt. its too hard for children to see that and feel that. i want to find somebody who wants to get it right from the start and keep it right with each other. i dont want any compromises on who or how the relationship should be. i want to be happy and i want the man i am with happy too. and if we are both happy then his kids(if he has any) and my kids will be happy. things in life can be simple, its people who complicate things more. i dont want no BS either or a guy who is just gonna play games.