Coolwaterfall, 60

I'm a very cool down to earth person. I enjoy traveling, live music, sporting events, fashion shows, and much more. I have over twenty years federal service, so I'm looking for someone who is financially secure.
I am looking for a friend first. I am looking for someone that is not judgemental, or superficial. What attracts me to a lady? Men are visual and I am no different, however, it takes more than looks to keep my attention. I like a self confident sista -- who knows and loves herself (yet not narcissistic). Confidence is sexy! I like a lady who can hold a conversation and who has a sense of humor. And if you can make me laugh, that's a plus.
I love music, theater, and golf. I'm always up for trying out new restaurants or going to the the movies. Planning is good, but sometimes I really love spontaneous trips. My Mother once told me that when it comes to courtship, a man may want to pursue a woman and get to know her; however, it's the woman that chooses the man. The concept of finding a soul mate and true love is a desire that we all share. And it is the journey of getting there that is the biggest challenge. True love is unconditional and that is the only way that I know how to give it.