Easygoer68, 56

a very easy going guy, raised by grandmother and aunt's who hard-wired and instilled in me the importance of how to treat a lady. respect and consideration are paramount concerning the treatment of a woman. i am a man that loves to cook and i'm pretty good at it. i'm also no stranger to cleaning as well. but don't get it twisted. i will no more be your butler, than you'll be my maid. i just want my potential love interest to know that there will be no "miss sealy" mentality with me. i'm not your typical "dirty socks in the middle of the floor" type of guy. and i don't think that diminishes who i am as a man, but more over, i think it shows diversity and a sense of being grounded. by the way, i sing when i cook and dance in the shower. a bit old-fashioned, so opening doors for my lady, breakfast in bed on a lazy saturday morning, saying yes mam/no mam, yes sir/no sir to your elders, no matter how old you get, is always appropriate. chivalry is yet alive and well. looking for someone to share the finer things in life with, not just designer things. but love, family and friends. nothing wrong with the wine and dine, but i put more of a premium on quality time. i'm looking for honesty in a partner. i would rather eat a bologna sandwich with someone i know, than steak with someone i thought i knew. i'm an affectionate guy, so if you're someone that does'nt like to be touched, or held frequently, or something as simple as holding hands, i'm not gonna be the guy for you. not to toot my own horn, but i really am a nice guy. it's that fact that has left me on the short end of some very painful situations. mainly because i was willing to make her a priority, and she was only willing to make me an option. and did so with amazing stealth and deception. i want what's real. my idea of a good time primarily revovles around an environment condusive to .YOU AND I. so "the club" and "the bar" are not very high on my good time meter. it's just not where i am.