Flintstone84, 40

i can only be what the man above allows me to be All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was. I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory. I was naïve. I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer. It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with. that I am nobody but myself.but besides that im a good person very kind i like woman that i look forward to being aroung basically a woman that i can relate to and some type of way.I am looking for someone who is focused; self motivated, and knows what she wants out of life. Someone who can take charge but be gentle when doing so. Someone that can make me laugh and that likes to have fun doing simple things. Someone who is truly interested in getting to know me and who is not afraid to open up and let me get to know them. Someone who is down to earth and has an overall genuine personality. Looking for a friendship that can have the potential to move on to something more serious in the future.