Grlgoingforward, 55

Basically, I'm an intelligent 40yo single black female seeking a strong black man that can, not only enlighten my mind, but can tug my heart strings! He should be spiritual and sensitive. I love to laugh...so laughter is definately a necessity. Looks aren't everything...but height is sooo sexy to me. I realize that at my age...nearly everyone has kids. I love children ( have 2 of my own) so kids are not a deal breaker! Basically,I've been through a great deal and have decided NOT to let the past dictate my future. Hoping to find the same qualities in some handsome man!