Micmac99, 55

Read through all of this before you decide to respond. I will be as clear as possible but make this as easy to read and digest as possible.

Who I am:

- 39 year old medium skinned university-educated graphic designer
- A few extra pounds, not overly obese but probably need to exercise a little more
- Struggling with career success and finances (like most of us in the real world)
- Divorced father, son lives in Austin, Texas
- in Phoenix, wanting to move to Austin by early 2010
- Northern California native (Oakland)
- Capricorn
- Shy around strangers
- Politically aware. Liberal, leaning socialist.
- creative and passionate, sometimes write short fiction
- laid-back, mostly positive, friendly attitude but opinionated as well
- casual but preppy dresser
- sloppy housekeeper
- spiritually aware but NOT a church-goer anymore, leaning atheist and "New Age"
- believe in aliens/exopolitics, UFO's, no, I have never actually seen one
- like jazz, classical music, deep house, drum'n'bass/jungle and older hip-hop
- Favorite pastime is sleeping, followed by eating, watching news, surfing the Web

What I want:

- You VERY MUCH want a family relatively soon (or add to it)
- ***You do NOT need, require or demand a financially "secure" or "successful" man to make you happy.***
- Short and skinny preferred - not really attracted to women above 5' 5"
- Black/African (and/or mixed/biracial), Latina, Native American, or any and all possible mixture of those
- Pisces (preferred), Taurus or Libra, maybe Capricorn or Cancer
- University graduate or at least you have an associates' degree
- laid-back, mostly positive, friendly, quiet, respectful attitude
- Intelligent, active mind, love of books, knowledge, learning, maybe poetry
- Independent from family for the most part
- shy/introverted, quiet and easygoing but sometimes spontaneous
- liberal in political views
- Active mind, maybe a little weird; you have to hide some of your real self to fit in