Nekamechelle, 41

NO EXCUSES - NOTHING BUT THE BEST I am Shanika. I am a WOMAN in search of a MAN who has his life together. A MAN who is independent and never depends on anything or anyone to prosper in life. A MAN that has a personality of his own and does not need nor try to be like anyone else.

I am a WOMAN who enjoys reading, writing, listening to music. I enjoy the comfort of my home. I am NOT intersted in someone who wants a one-night-stand. I recommend that you come at me correct - represent yourself as a grown man and show me that you mean business. First impressions are very important.

I am looking for someone that is interested in some of the same things that I am intersted in. I am not looking to be someone's number two, three or four...with time, I want to be this persons number one. I am a old-fashion woman and I beleive in courtship.

If you still live with your mother, I suggest you not waste your time. If you passenger seat driving I suggest you not contact me. If you are broke and dont have a job I suggest you not contact me. I got my own: house, car, money, job - I am a professional and I expect my MAN to be a professional.

Some of you may think that I sound like I am stuck-up or whatever, but I am not. I just want the best. IN EVERYTHING that I have and do. Wouldnt you expect the same for your sons and daughters? I have no children and whether or not you have children are no issue with me. I love children and children love me.

I am going to end it here for the time being...if you think you fit the description, give it a try