Sassyrebel, 70

I prefer honest relationships as I'm honest to a fault. I believe rights right, and wrong is wrong.
It's imparative he be neat, clean, and good smelling (which does not mean cologne over funk!!). When I say neat and clean that doesn't mean suit and tie, it simply means don't "pull it out of the hamper and wear it because it's the cleanest dirty clothes you have".
I'm not looking to get married, the name my Daddy gave me is just fine, I have no problem taking it with me when I leave this earth. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't like to be in a solid relationship.
The guy I'm looking for is honest, strong & secure in who he is. He is gentle, never abusive verbally or physically. He has no control issues, because I'm surely the wrong person for him. I'm a grown woman, I already know how to act.
I'm not the jealous type, nor will I tolerate jealousy. I believe life is complicated enough without worrying about things you have no control over.
He must have his own interest, with that I mean I can't be with someone 24 hours a day. Go do what you do, if you're shady when I find out you wont be back. I know I can't nor do I feel the need to change who you already are.
I'm not interested in partying, I really have no problem if you do occasionally. Trying to keep people on lockdown is a waste of time, eventually all the fluff comes off. I know if you can't be honest with yourself, you can't be honest with me.
I don't consider myself drop dead gorgeous, pretty, next door type. I'm not a "Cherry 2000, but niether will I short circuit when the sink overflows.
I have hazel eyes, multi-colored hair, I'm full figured, I could lose some, and I do at times, for the most part this is who I am...
I don't play games, or have several different personalities. I come from a very large family, and to be honest sometimes there is a little dramma.
I'm not desperately seeking anyone.I don't want to move from my home. I'm not looking for a sugardaddy,