Shuggernspice, 61

Okay..... I admit it! We have all heard the saying that "No man is an island"....and I am finally ready to admit that no woman (at least not this one)is either. It is not a matter of being desperate, but I know that although there are plenty of days when I am so happy to be alone, there are other days (and nights) when I am lonely. And I am tired of it! The question is where does an attractive, funny, intelligent, kind hearted, hard-working, affectionate, thoughtful, attentive, ------- and loving woman like myself meet a man that is ready and open to a good solid relationship? I am not a clubber, RARELY go to bars, and as much as I hear maybe church, libraries/bookstores or the museums, I can't see those as places to look. I focus on the MESSAGE (if the pastor is sending one I can relate to), LOVE books too much to pay attention to anyone that may be checking me out, and haven't been to the museum in a while.

So now, we try this.....AGAIN. I have been told that we attract what we are, so if my description of myself is accurate, I would like to meet my male counterpart (see above description in 1st paragraph). He must also be clear on what he wants, unafraid to express it, consistent in word and deed, free of any issues with exes/babymama(s), ABSOLUTELY NO DRUGS OR DRINKING ISSUES, and no games. It is also important that he has a great sense of humor, be a gentleman, and know HOW to date. In short I am looking for a grown man, not a tall boy that pays taxes!

Hopefully, there is a man reading this that is saying, "Hey, that's me!". If you are, I think you would be doing a disservice to both of us to prolong our happiness any further-lol!!! Can't wait to hear from you.