no time 4 games or bs I am very passionate about life and live it to the fullest. I believe that compromise gives a relationship a better chance of survival. I am a very confident, self motivated, aggressive, open minded, understanding, non judgmental and mentally fit. My finances are stable, which allows me to live independently. I'm a gentle, loving and caring person with a marvelous sense of humor I love to laugh and enjoy the simple things that life has to offer. I am bluntly honest, loyal and expect the same from others. I have my personal shortcomings and issues, as well all do. I can be spontaneous, but I prefer planned events.
I love to cook, especially for my significant other and also for friends and family. I love animals, and have 3 dogs and cats.
I am seeking a man whose beauty comes from within and in his manner. He must be genuine, responsible, confident, assertive, independent and open-minded. I am looking for a man who wants to be Happy and is motivated to work hard to achieve his goals in life and wants a good woman to share that with. I am looking for a friend, a companion and a lover.
  I believe that communication is the Key...keeping it simple and being truthful all of the time. A person needs to understand that happiness comes from within and no one can make you happy until you are happy with yourself. A person must be self-accepting and understanding that in order for a relationship to succeed, each person has to be complete within themselves.
Relationships fail because one partner takes the other for granted We are accountable for our own actions roles in our relationships,and maintain a mutual respect and concern for them, embrace life, Love, and enjoy the moment.
I am a SELFLESS person, which should not be interpreted for anything less or more than what it is... This does not mean that I am a sucker for a smile or anything else, I am simply a good person who is motivated by feeling good helping others while gaining nothing in return.
Sueplumm, 2024
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Albany, NY, USA
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About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'08"
Weight
320 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cooking & recipes, internet, movies
Body Type
voluptuous
Movies
sci-fi, romantic comedy, romance, drama, comedy, bollywood, action
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
black, dark brown
Ethnicity
Inter-racial
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
yes - single parent home, yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
some college
Profession
Other
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
daily, cigarettes, like a chimney, chain smoker
Do you drink?
teetotaller, socially
I currently live
with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
loner, better in small groups, anti-social, comic relief, flirt, home body
Food Related
Indian, Fine Dining, Fast Food, Eat Out Frequently, Comfort, Chocoholic, Chinese, Italian, Junk Food Junkie, Soul Food
Personality
flirt, activist, fun loving, intellectual
Individuality
tattoos
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, the yin to my yang, soulmate, something interesting, romance, relationship, mr. right, friends only
My Sign
scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21
Pets
Cats, Dogs
Gender
Female
Music
Hip Hop, Rap, R and B
Hair Style
straight, short hair, layered
Health Related
minor health issues, meditation, herbalism, diabetic, alternative medicine
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cooking & recipes, cycling, dancing, gardening, internet, movies, music, naturism, photography, reading, running, sports, surfing, swimming, television, travel, video games, wine tasting, working out, writing, yoga
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, fit, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel
Movies
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, bald, black, dark brown
Their Ethnicity
African American, Hispanic / Latino, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Other, Pacific Islander
Relationship
divorced, separated, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - do not want kids, no - maybe with the right person, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000, Less than $25,000, that's private
Do they smoke?
chain smoker, daily, like a chimney, socially
Do they drink?
socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, with an insignificant other, with kids, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, comic relief, flirt, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
conservative, democrat, green party, independent, liberal, libertarian, ndp - the new democratic party (canada), not interested in politics, progressive, reform party, republican, socialist, the conservative party (canada), the conservative party (uk), the labour party (uk), the liberal democrats (uk), the liberal party (canada)
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Raw, Spicy, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
flirt, fun loving, intellectual, loner, lover, nerd, professional
Individuality
piercings, shaved head, tattoos
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Catholic, Christian, Hindu, Islam, Jehovah's Witness, Jewish, Latter-day Saints, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Scientology, Wiccan
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends - with benefits, miss right, relationship, romance, something REALLY hot, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Pets
Horses, Iguana, Monkey, Pot-Bellied Pig, Rabbit, Rabbits, Rat, Rats, Rock, Sehlat, Small Furry Creature, Snake, Snakes, Spider, Spiders, Targ, Tribbles, Turtle, Turtles, Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Farm Animal, Farm Animals, Ferret, Ferrets, Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse
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