Umhaneef, 54

Tired of being single Hello. I am seeking an A+ man bc I am an A+ woman. I also have a neurological condition that affects me in no big way. In fact, my lovely condition actually is a blessing from God and adds to my compassion and understanding. I can do all things I want to do--except drive, see well, and walk well and balance well. So any man that is with me must be willing to accept and love ALL of me--including my 3 well-mannered and beautiful boys. I am also a smart, confident, and strong-willed woman. So I need and want a man who can deal with this aspect of me. (EVERY man I have met say they can handle having a strong woman, but I later find out they really lack maturity and can't handle a strong and smart woman. Some have attacked me for having a masters degree. Some men I have net need a woman to be weak in order to make them feel like a man.) I am also very nice, mannerable, and polite, so I need and want the same in a man. Now please don't get me wrong. I aint tryin to be a man or do a man's job. I have no problem letting my man lead and take charge, when needed. I welcome that bc it takes pressure off me. God created men and women different and they have very different roles in life. Further, I am looking for a MATURE, confident, caring, understanding, settled, and responsible man. I am seeking a calm and comfortable relationship that will lead to a very long term, warm and solid marriage. I am not interested in games, drama, or a long distance relationship (No more than 50 miles from me. I am in Raleigh, NC, USA).Also I am seeking a man who will be my protector and care for me and my children (I am not seeking a father for them for they already have a father). A father figure is good for them though. I am 5'7" tall and want a man atleast 5'9"tall or taller. Finally, I am a very happy Muslim woman. A man's religion does not matter to me. I know of the rules in Islam--regarding Muslim women and marriage--so please DO NOT contact me to tell me